cinta nggak pernah salah...
Judul postingan gue kali ini uhuy bangeut nggak sih? heheheh...I don't know why I wanna write about 'l.o.v.e.' this time...Maybe because it's valentine's day today...Maybe also because in every public places (malls, shopping centre, restaurants) I go nowadays, there are pink and heart decorations everywhere...Maybe because love is a universal theme (that's what the musicians or singers always say when asked about their never ending love songs)...Or maybe because recently I have to cope with many love stories (my friends' lho ya...not mine hehehe ;p). I don't know...
What's love anyway..? For me, love is undescribable in language (itu ngelesnya saya karena nggak bisa jawab apa sebenernya 'cinta' hehehe ;p)...One thing I know for sure, I love being in love...Love gives me energy to give my best for the people that I love...
I'm sure every one of us has been falling in love, at least once in our life...Do you believe in 'forbidden love'? One of my friends (just say that his name is X) ask me once...Is it wrong to fall in love with someone who already has a boyfriend? I can't answer, really...You can't plan with whom you fall in love, right? Maybe that's why it's called 'falling in love' because you never plan it, it comes just like that, and you just fall...So, I guess it's your right to fall in love with anybody you want, regardless his/her status...
But maybeeeeee, eventhough it is your right, eventhough you can't control your feeling, I'm sure you CAN control how you react towards that feeling...Ada batasan-batasan yang emang nggak bisa seenaknya dilanggar...Ada komitmen yang seberapa pun kecilnya harus dihargai...Ada perasaan orang lain yang juga harus dijaga...And you have to remember that...
Sama mungkin seperti diskusi saya dengan seorang teman beberapa waktu yang lalu...Soal salah nggak sih jatuh cinta dengan orang yang beda agama...? Hmmmm...saya speechless ;p Kalau dibahas di sini akan jadi debat kusir yang nggak akan ada habisnya...Yang pasti, kalau buat saya, you're the one who live your life...You know how and with whom you will be happy...If it's worthed to fight for, then go for it! You just don't know how it ends until you give it a try, right? Teman saya itu tanya lagi (cerewet!), terus kalo emang nggak bisa diterusin kemana-mana lagi gimana donk...? Hmmmm...saya speechless lagi ;p Buat saya, berani jatuh cinta harus berani juga patah hati...Tapi daripada saya wondering 'whatifguedulusamadiaya' tapi nggak berani ngejalanin, lebih baik saya coba jalanin dulu walaupun hasilnya nanti kita nggak akan pernah tau...Sedih memang...Patah hati memang...Nangis sampe bengkak-bengkak memang...Hilang semangat hidup beberapa lama memang...Curhat nggak berenti-berenti memang...Dengerin lagu-lagu Glenn Fredly mulu memang...Makan mulu memang (ini mah nggak patah hati juga memang iya ;p)...
But as we're all students of life (hei...I like the sentence...that's why I quote it here ;p), we keep on learning...and loving ;)
Here, I quote a text I got from my friend this morning:
Without LOVE,
days are:
- sadday
- moanday
- tearsday
- wasteday
- thirstday
- fightday
- shatterday
so be in love everyday...! ;)
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